When a girl often dreams about her ex-boyfriend or lover, it is not without reason. And such a dream brings different, contradictory emotions. Parting with loved ones is always difficult, no matter what, and when they come in dreams, reminding you of themselves, it is even more difficult.
Every woman understands that this is not just like that, it is some kind of sign. But what exactly does this mean? The dream book will help here.
There is no one simple answer to the question of why you dream about your ex-boyfriend or spouse. Interpretation and meaning depend on many things, and there are different, dissimilar answers. So remember the details of the dream: what did he do and what did you do?
When in a dream he kisses or hugs you, declares his love or, on the contrary, you quarrel, when he appears drunk or even dead - it all has different meanings. It is also important when you broke up - a long time ago or recently - how you feel about it, whether he has gotten together with a new girl and many other factors. The dream book gives approximately the following plot options:
- I dream about him often, even every day.
- I dreamed about another girl.
- Kisses you or hugs you.
- Quarrel with him, argue or fight.
- He confesses his love or wants to return.
- See separation again in your dream.
Also, the day of the week is important for the interpretation of sleep. Don't try to find one general answer - it won't work. If you want to know why and why you are having these dreams, remember all the details and understand everything properly.
What were you like...
Wise dream books and interpreters will help you understand why your ex-boyfriend dreams. Let's see what they tell us?
2. If you often have dreams involving your ex-lover, this means that your imagination can’t stop drawing his image in your memory. It is unlikely that this means some future events related to him specifically. Most likely, you just need to try to switch to yourself and building new happiness in your personal relationships.
3. It’s another matter if the person you broke up with dreams of you every day. It is important! Dreams that are repeated every day cannot be ignored. Perhaps this person with whom you were close wants to see you. Or maybe he even needs your help or is in trouble. Contact him no matter what your feelings are. Call and ask: maybe you can help with something?
5. A dream in which you again break up with your loved one (in reality - your ex) means a new meeting. Perhaps it will be decisive!
6. Seeing him in the arms of another girl in a dream is an indication of your empty worries. Perhaps this concerns your current relationships or your personal life in general. You overthink things and see problems where there are none at all. And this not only causes stress, but can also lead to real difficulties. Look at things soberly, don’t invent problems if they don’t exist.
7. As the dream book describes, the ex-boyfriend who was drunk in your dreams is advice. A drunk often in dreams indicates that in reality he needs support or may make some mistake. Perhaps he wants to do something wrong or simply needs the help of a loved one, which may be you.
Actions
If in your dreams you personally did something, not just saw your ex-boyfriend, but came into contact, these actions can tell you a lot. Let's open the dream book and check.
Did you dream of a quarrel with someone with whom you were once close and broke up? The dream book assures that this promises good changes and the arrival of a new, bright streak in life, especially on the personal front. Expect favorable changes!
If you abandoned him in your dreams, a strong desire to decisively change something has appeared in your subconscious. It's time, don't you think? Some decisive step that you just can’t decide to take can open the door to a happy new future for you. Think it over and do what you have to do. You build your own happiness.
Your future will be new and bright!
To find out in detail why your ex-boyfriend is dreaming, you should remember and take into account his actions that were in the dream.
- Kisses you? In reality you will be surprised. This dream foretells a pleasant surprise that you are not expecting.
- If he confesses his love to you in your dreams, someone will greatly surprise you. A surprise is in store for you: perhaps an incredible offer or a wonderful gift!
- Did you see him coming back to you or wanting to do so? You need novelty and need to think about what changes to enrich your waking life.
- Don't be alarmed if he's daydreaming. This is a wonderful sign that promises you happiness in love personally.
- When he scolded you and offended you in every possible way, he remembers you in reality, respects you, considers you a good and smart girl, his memory of you is only the best.
- Does your ex hug you in your sleep? You have good, kind relationships on the astral level, and you could even become friends.
By days
In such important dreams, it is important to take into account everything, including when exactly everything was dreamed.
1. If a former lover showed up in a dream from Monday to Tuesday, this could be advice. Also, such a dream shows your desires and thoughts, indicates in which direction it is better to move, what is best to do.
2. A dream about your ex from Tuesday to Wednesday is more likely a dream about him, not about you. Probably these dreams show what state he is in. Maybe he remembers you or even needs to communicate with you, help, support.
3. If you dreamed of him from Wednesday to Thursday, there is a hint of the future. Dreams during this period indicate opportunities and prospects, and if the dream book gives advice, then it is especially important. Listen!
5. From Friday to Saturday, a dream about an ex-boyfriend indicates that you should change or limit yourself. The dream book will show that you need to show strength and will, abstain from something, or, on the contrary, take an important but difficult action.
6. From Saturday to Sunday, dreams will show what will bring you happiness. If it is, for example, a surprise, it will change life for the better; if it is a meeting, then it is not simple, but fateful and happy.
7. Did you dream about him from Sunday to Monday? It reflects your thoughts, fantasies and state of mind, not events that lie ahead in the future.
Such dreams are rare for some, but for others they are a constant, common occurrence. Remember one thing: living people often come to us in our dreams at night, because we think about them or, on the contrary, hide them in the subconscious, not allowing ourselves to think properly. Be wise, build your present, and do not live in the past.
After a breakup, it can be difficult for us to get rid of thoughts about our ex-other half. It often manifests itself through dreams in which you see an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend. Many people believe that such a dream means that your ex is still thinking about you and he still has some feelings for you, but in reality such situations are extremely rare.
What is your dream really telling you? To understand this issue, try to remember in detail everything that happened in the dream, then read our article, which contains the most complete collection of dream interpretations.
With us you can find exactly your events related to your ex-boyfriend in a dream, and get the most reliable and accurate interpretation of your dreams, thanks to the fact that we take into account all aspects and draw up the most complete picture of the interpretation. 
Subconscious separation
You can say your farewell words once, turn around and leave. However, deep down in her soul, the girl begins to be drawn to old meetings, especially if the ex-boyfriend himself decided to end the relationship that was important to her. Therefore, the continuation of a relationship is often dreamed of after a breakup. As a rule, the person in love begins to miss him, the guy becomes, as before, affectionate and gentle, hugs her, kisses her, or she herself begins to drive him away, but he cannot approach her.
- The dream book does not interpret such dreams, since they are simply considered unreacted emotions to separation. In the real world, they do not foretell changes; on the contrary, longing, pain about loss and regret begin in the morning.
- To distinguish such a dream from a real prediction, pay attention to the actions in the dream.
- If you really wanted affection and for him to kiss you and you dream about it, this is simply compensation for the desire. But if you dreamed about your ex-boyfriend being affectionate when you don’t want him to be, this is already a dream with meaning.
- Sometimes a girl dreams that she screams at him, quarrels with him and drives him away herself.
If you dreamed about your ex-boyfriend from time to time after a breakup, your soul misses him. Such dreams will stop happening when the feeling fades away or the young man finally disappears from your horizon. This will be an indicator that everything has passed and you have already moved to a new stage.
His suffering and regrets
Such dreams occur quite often if you broke up on your initiative and he constantly thinks about you and wants to improve the relationship. Usually a girl, if she decides to end the relationship with him without regrets, stops seeing him in her dreams. However, dreams can indicate to her cruelty and a mistake that she can make out of stupidity or inexperience, without having the experience of properly breaking up a relationship, without tears and resentment.
- Why do you dream about your ex-boyfriend if the girl herself left him, knowing that he was in love with her?
- This means that he has a strong hope of restoring the relationship and is trying to do this with the help of magic, appeals to pity, or simply various destructive actions.
- If you often dream about an ex-boyfriend who is not worthy of a relationship, such a dream always means that he is remembering you.
If in a dream he asks for forgiveness, cries, gets sick, or tries to cut his veins, such a dream means his tears, repentance and the fact that he has not come to terms with refusal. Seeing him drunk or hanged in a dream is very bad. This means that because of unhappy love, he not only suffers, but can also commit suicide. Seeing him begging among the poor and homeless means his inability to establish relationships, constant self-pity and drunkenness.
It is possible that he is psychologically broken, mentally ill and drinks and does other destructive things. Sometimes such a dream means a girl’s regret about breaking up with him, but the inability to build a serious relationship with him. But in rare cases, higher powers call you to return to the relationship, since this person truly loves you and over time will be able to do a lot for personal happiness. 
- Why do you dream of an ex-boyfriend who stalks you, doesn’t let you meet a new person and is constantly jealous? This dream means that his feelings have not cooled down and he will interfere with your personal life.
- What does it mean if he constantly stalks you with a knife or threatens or blackmails you? This dream means revenge for an insult or spreading defamatory rumors about you in retaliation.
- The dream book calls for caution and the fact that you will have to quarrel with him and try to completely break off relations with him, so as not to harm yourself.
When sleep matters
Usually in such dreams the ex-boyfriend appears unexpectedly and in an unusual form. Sometimes such coincidences can turn out to be very striking and surprising, sometimes even frightening. Why do you dream about your ex-boyfriend when you have already stopped remembering him? The dream book writes that such a dream always reminds of the past and almost always predicts news from or about it.
- Why do you dream about your ex-boyfriend being drunk, when he has never taken a drop in his mouth in his life? Such a dream often means that he feels bad at the moment and asks for forgiveness mentally, but is afraid to say so.
- Sometimes such a dream means suffering for him because of a cold and selfish girl whom he cannot achieve.
- Usually the dream book interprets an ex-boyfriend simply as a symbol of the past, which will remind itself again. Remember what was connected with him when you met this person.
Why does my ex-boyfriend dream about another girl or his fiancee in a wedding dress? Subconsciously, you are ready to accept his choice and are keenly interested in who is now his chosen one. Pay attention to her appearance, as it shows what kind of girl he really wants. Sometimes such dreams come about the news that he is getting married or dating another person.
Seeing your ex-boyfriend in a dream as affectionate as before, hugging him and kissing him? There are several interpretations of what exactly this means. In the first case, such dreams mean that your personal life will not go well, and you will remember your ex and begin to strive to improve your relationship with him.
- Whether this will be possible or not depends on the plot of the dream.
- Another version of the dream book about what an ex-boyfriend or even a husband dreams about is related to the fact that very soon you will learn about his loneliness and vulnerability in feelings.
- He will suffer or start drinking.
What does it mean if you constantly dream about your ex-boyfriend in the same situation? Most often, this is an encrypted message that requires execution.
- Or a requirement of fate in which you will be together again, although not immediately. What does it mean to hear the same words from him in a dream? Please note what they mean.
- They sometimes contain a call to literal action. What is said must be done.
- In the end, the result can already be controlled. After the fulfillment of fate is completed, he will stop constantly appearing in dreams.
Why do you dream about your ex instead of your current fiance or even husband? Very often this means disappointment in your chosen one or a reunion with a past love. Seeing him instead of your fiancé means that you will be together again or your chosen one will be like him.
Vanga's Dream Book
According to Vanga’s dream book, an ex-boyfriend in a dream is interpreted as longing, suffering for a person who has left your life, but you miss him.
You think that a reunion is inevitable, that's why you dream about your ex-boyfriend, you want to believe in the best, and you can't just take him and let him out of your life. Admit to yourself that you still miss your ex, that he still means something to you, and that perhaps all is not lost. On the other hand, the dream may foreshadow a breakup with your current lover, so don’t get too hung up, writes I Want.
According to Freud
The founder of psychoanalysis is known for seeing sexual connotations in everything. So, for example, according to his theory, seeing an ex-boyfriend in a dream means a quarrel with your current lover. Old Freud insisted that scandals and discord would occur due to comparisons between former and current boyfriends.
Loff's Dream Book
- If you believe Loff’s dream book, seeing a former young man in a dream is unlucky. When marrying your ex-lover, be sure that major troubles will appear in your life.
- If your ex-boyfriend confesses his love to you, expect unpleasant surprises. But if your ex-boyfriend marries or confesses his love to another girl, you may make new good friends or forgive someone.
- If your ex-lover dies in your dream, most likely you will soon get married and have a child.
Miller's Dream Book
According to Miller, a former loved one dreams of impending changes. Changes in life can be both positive and negative. If you dreamed that you were reunited with your ex-boyfriend, in real life this could mean a situation related to a former relationship. A kiss with an ex-boyfriend symbolizes some pleasant and unexpected event, and sex with him symbolizes conflicts.
Wanderer's Dream Book
A certain Wanderer interprets an ex in a dream as the emergence of a new relationship in reality. This means that you have definitely cooled down from your past relationship, made the right choice and are ready for well-being and happiness with another person.
A smile from your ex-boyfriend in a dream speaks of imminent health problems or problems with your current lover (in this case, you should just listen to your body). 
Interpretation by days of the week
- From Monday to Tuesday: your ex-boyfriend, despite the breakup, respects you, wishes you only good things and does not say any nasty things about you.
- From Tuesday to Wednesday: your ex-boyfriend thinks about you, remembers past relationships, regrets the breakup and wants to get you back.
- From Wednesday to Thursday: your ex-lover thinks about you, but tries to forget himself with the help of other girls.
- From Thursday to Friday: your ex-boyfriend has feelings for you, perhaps even loves you, from which he suffers greatly and cannot be consoled in the arms of other girls.
- From Saturday to Sunday: be vigilant, because the guy is brewing a serious conversation with you on the topic of past grievances, understatements and unclear matters.
- From Sunday to Monday: your ex-man is looking for a meeting with you, wants to talk and just see how you live without him.
Such dreams especially occur if the breakup was due to the girl’s fault and she is aware of it. It is worth noting that a former lover can also have dreams of this kind. An undefined point often leads to the fact that both partners want to finally sort out the relationship, even if it’s at least in a dream. If the dreams are just like that, then the girl should talk to her ex in real life and then the problem will be solved.
It happens that a young man dreams of a changed appearance. It could be a slight change in appearance, or it could be that he is sick with something. Such dreams most often indicate changes in life, and they can happen both in the life of a girl and in the life of a former lover.
Perhaps news will come from him. Such a dream sometimes speaks of an upcoming meeting of former partners, but how this meeting will end is unknown.
- Well, the last option: sleeping with your ex is just a dream and nothing more. Sometimes memory brings up various memories of past events that have not caused any emotions for a long time. For example, the reason for such nostalgic notes can be viewing old photographs of a former happy couple.
- Or maybe somewhere a girl smelled his favorite cologne or heard their favorite song. In any case, whatever the reason for the memories, they do not mean that the girl misses her ex-boyfriend and wants to make peace with him.
- These are just fleeting and pleasant memories of a past life, and the subconscious just “replays” these events in a dream.
There should be no worries about such dreams: the ex is only dreaming because the girl has too many memories of him. In the future, everything will gradually be forgotten, there will be new events and emotions that will cover the old ones and dreams will disappear. 
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If in a dream you saw your ex-lover, it means in real life that you are overly passionate about the past. In other words, your previous relationships prevent you from self-realization and starting a new life, developing as individuals and changing priorities.
- As the classic dream book explains, if you kiss your ex-boyfriend in a dream, then in reality you will be very surprised by something.
- If you dreamed of a sexual act - a long-standing conflict will escalate; if you broke up in a dream - this means a new meeting, if you quarreled - this means successful changes on the personal front.
- If you saw a fight with your ex in a dream, in reality the current young man will develop a sense of possessiveness.
- In Tsvetkov’s dream book, seeing an ex-boyfriend in a dream is a sign that you will commit some frivolous act that will lead you to disastrous consequences.
- According to the modern dream book, if in your dream you saw your ex-boyfriend feeling a feeling of love and trepidation for you, in reality be prepared for surprises, including not very good ones.
- The death of your ex in a dream means that you will soon get married or have a child.
Most often, the dream in which you saw your ex-lover is associated with a subconscious comparison between him and the current young man, so after such a dream you need to try to control your actions and words so as not to provoke quarrels out of nowhere.
In Sigmund Freud's dream book, an ex-boyfriend symbolizes a woman's subconscious fears about his possible infidelity or betrayal. If in a dream your ex-boyfriend is angry and reproaches you for infidelity, in reality you will receive his respect and trust.
In a dream, your ex-boyfriend looks exhausted, this is an omen of a serious illness, perhaps even one of your family will be bedridden for a long time. 
Why do ex-boyfriends and lovers appear in our dreams?
- The appearance of a former lover in a dream often causes anxiety and indignation, especially among girls and women who have not found their soulmate at this point in time.
- The most disturbing dreams about a former loved one are those in which he, without explaining the reason, leaves or talks about breaking up with you. In part, such a dream symbolizes the psychological fear of losing what is most valuable and dear.
- If you dream about your ex-boyfriend quite often in various situations, you should think about the fact that perhaps your feelings are still alive and his character occupies most of your thoughts.
However, it is important to correctly interpret your dream, since small nuances and details are very important. If you trust folk superstitions, any person who appears to you in a dream will certainly think about you. And if this person is your ex-lover, this cannot be happy. The fact that a man who was once close to you remembers and thinks about you is the most pleasant interpretation of a dream.
It should be noted that among the interpretations of such a dream, there are very funny ones, for example, in the English dream book, such a dream warns against witchcraft and sorcerers. You need to be especially careful if in a dream your ex-boyfriend is inflamed with passion for you. 
What do dreams about ex-boyfriends mean in popular and modern dream books?
- Dreaming about your ex-boyfriend when you're in a new relationship symbolizes a lack of romance and passion, so it's worth taking a fresh look at your sexual relationship with your current boyfriend.
- Why do you dream of an ex-boyfriend married to another girl - in real life you will forgive someone for past grievances.
A dream in which you did not finish the conversation is a sign that you have not brought your relationship to its logical conclusion and you still have something to talk about in real life. Such dreams are especially relevant if the separation was your fault, and subconsciously you are aware of your guilt. In this case, a frank conversation will not hurt, and then the question about such dreams will be resolved by itself.
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Why do you dream about your ex-boyfriend?
- Meeting an ex-boyfriend in life is an understandable phenomenon, but talking to him in a dream, and even when a new lover is sleeping next to him, is a real mystery.
- Why is he dreaming? After all, life has changed, love has appeared, plans for the future, etc. Not a trace remains of the past, but...
Does he think about you?
Many girls associate the appearance of an ex in a dream with his personal feelings and experiences. If you dream, it means you still love you and can’t forget.
Why doesn't he call then? He is shy or not sure that you will reciprocate his feelings.
- On the one hand, everything is logical, but let's try to look at the situation from a different angle.
- How do his thoughts affect your dreams? It can be assumed that he has magical powers and is trying to penetrate your subconscious.
- Or he has established an invisible connection with you. Agree, it sounds a little strange.
The fact is that dreams are a projection of the unconscious, which contains many interesting and mysterious puzzles. What worries you on a subconscious level appears in a dream in the form of symbols and signs.
So, maybe it's all about you? 
What do your feelings say?
An ex-boyfriend in a dream can mean a disturbing incompleteness in one of the stages of your relationship. Most often, this stage is an “unfinished separation.”
- That is, in life you have dotted all the i’s, but in your soul you continue to be tormented by doubts. Did you do the right thing? Who was to blame? Could the situation be corrected?
- When you wake up, immediately write down how you felt during your sleep. Resentment or regret? Longing or joy? Pay attention to how you feel when you wake up.
- Joy usually indicates that you were happy in your past relationship and may want to get back into it.
Resentment speaks of hidden aggression towards a former partner, which may affect the current union. Regret is a sign of a deep-seated feeling of guilt. Each feeling must be worked through in order to get rid of interfering dreams. However, not everything is so simple. Dreams about an ex-boyfriend may contain another twist...
Who does he remind you of?
- Often the characters in your dreams depict real people with whom you have close relationships at the present time. They seem very familiar and loved, but at the same time you realize that you don't feel anything for them.
- If sleeping with your ex-boyfriend does not cause you any emotions other than bewilderment, you should think about who your ex-partner is “pointing” you to?
- Who does he look like? Who is it associated with? Usually the answer lies in individual words or behavioral traits of the hero. Perhaps some phrase reminded you of a close friend or acquaintance?
Thus, the ex acts as an image of this or that person who has a direct influence on your life. Perhaps he is trying to “help” you and show you something that you do not see in ordinary life. Such dreams often lift the curtain on underlying problems in relationships with people.
But even in this case, the ex-boyfriend is just a projection of your unconscious. Another thing is why exactly him? 
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I dreamed about my ex-boyfriend
Psychologists warn that visions of previous passions can provoke conflicts with the man who is caring for the sleeping woman today. This is natural. After all, she constantly compares her gentlemen: current and former. The partner senses this and expresses dissatisfaction.
- Sigmund Freud emphasizes that yesterday's lover is dreamed of by young ladies who are afraid of treason and betrayal.
- If this gentleman is angry and shows feelings of jealousy, then in reality, he considers you a decent, honest woman.
- A bad dream in which a recent admirer looks dejected and tired. This vision can predict illness in one of the sleeping family members.
If a girl is passionate about memories, then she dreams of past relationships. The question immediately arises: why does the ex-boyfriend dream? The dream shows a subconscious comparison between current relationships and past ones. In this case, you need to regret your actions less. This prevents you from starting a new life. You should also control thoughts and conversations with your loved one so as not to provoke a quarrel.
The dream may also mean an unconscious fear of losing the value of life. If in reality there is no loved one, then the dream book speaks of uncooled feelings. Perhaps it is worth renewing the relationship. Different nuances of a dream can create different interpretations. It is important to take all points into account. But a common folk belief says that any person who comes to you in a dream thinks about you. 
See your ex-boyfriend in a dream
Tsvetaeva’s dream book warns that if you dreamed about an ex-boyfriend, then you need to be careful in your actions. Perhaps you will commit a frivolous act for which you will have to pay.
- Kisses mean that you will soon be very surprised.
- What does it mean to dream about sex with an ex? It means an exacerbation of a long-standing conflict.
- If your ex-boyfriend or ex-husband is exhausted and looks sick in a dream, then in reality either you or one of your relatives will become seriously ill. A bedridden illness is possible.
- If you break up in a dream, it means that a new acquaintance awaits you soon.
- A quarrel is also a good sign in the dream book, indicating happiness in your personal life.
- The fight shows that the young man has regained a sense of ownership.
- If your ex-lover wants you back, then expect a pleasant surprise.
- The death of an ex-boyfriend speaks of an imminent wedding and the birth of children.
- Sigmund Freud argued that such a vision speaks of the fear of betrayal of the current young man.
- If your ex-boyfriend accuses you of infidelity in a dream, then in reality he will show respect.
- The English dream book warns against the influence of magic on you. You especially need to be wary when a man shows passion.
- If you are in a relationship and you dreamed about past moments with your ex, then in reality you and your partner are missing romance.
After a dream in which you communicated with your ex-lover, are you sad and a little sorry that the dream is over? This means only one thing - you are still living in the past, dreaming that your relationship with your former gentleman will be restored. And everything will be as before... Remember! This is an extremely harmful attitude that prevents you from organizing your personal life today and now. Dozens of worthy guys pass by you and don’t pay attention to you because you look at the world with detachment. And you don’t even see them, immersed in dreams of the past.
So why do you dream about your ex-boyfriend? The interpretation of the dream book depends on your actions, emotions, and the response of your former boyfriend. 
Predictions from various sources
- The classic dream book predicts extreme amazement and surprise for the one who kissed her ex-boyfriend while she was sleeping.
- But if kisses alone were not enough, and intimacy occurred, then the dreamer faces another, painful showdown regarding a long-standing quarrel.
- If a quarrel occurs in a dream, then in reality the girl will have good luck in matters of the heart.
- Did your former boyfriend fight in a dream? This means that the current one will begin to show his character, command you, be jealous, like an owner.
- In Tsvetaeva’s dream book it is indicated that an ex-boyfriend may appear before some rash act, which the sleeping woman will have to regret.
- In the Modern Collection of Dream Interpretations, a vision about the feelings of a former boyfriend is interpreted as unexpectedness and surprises. Moreover, it is unknown whether they will make you happy, or, on the contrary, upset or scare you.
- A nightmare about the death of an ex-boyfriend, a dream book foreshadowing a joyful event in the life of a sleeping girl. She will soon get married and give birth to her first child.
Why is he dreaming?
- Girls who are still going through a breakup sometimes ask the question: why do you dream about your ex-boyfriend? They supposedly don't want to hear anything about him.
- And even more so to think and tolerate his “appearance” in night dreams. Be patient, as soon as you meet a worthy man, this vision will stop bothering you.
- What if a dear friend from the past says goodbye to you in a dream and explains why he is leaving? Psychologically, the dreamer is tense; she is afraid of losing something dear and valuable.
If you dream about the same person with a certain frequency, then think: were you in a hurry with the decision to break off the relationship? He, according to the interpreters, definitely dreams of returning to the past. According to popular belief, the person in your dream is thinking about you. And if you saw in a dream the object of your former passion, then, most likely, you will be glad that he is still not indifferent to you.
But among the British, this same vision is interpreted as a terrible omen, warning that spiteful critics are plotting against the dreamer, who do not even hesitate to turn to sorcerers and witches for help. Why dream if you have already cooled down, but your ex-boyfriend is still burning with passion. 
Modern interpretations
In modern dream books there is the following explanation: you dream of an ex-boyfriend if you lack romance and sensuality in your relationship today. My only advice is to try to add variety to your intimate relationship with the boyfriend who won your heart today.
- Did you dream that your recent loved one has already found a new darling and is even getting married? Then, when you wake up, be sure to forgive someone for minor sins and even serious offenses.
- Why do you dream about a former lover with whom you haven’t completed the conversation? If the dreamer was the initiator of parting with him, then the meaning of this plot is direct and clear. She needs to come up with a reason to meet and have a heart-to-heart talk with the hero of yesterday. Explaining to him that they are now just friends, but not lovers.
- Did you dream that the guy you were friends with died? This is a dream book warning about danger. But if he helps and supports, then in reality everything will work out in the best possible way.
- An interesting interpretation is offered to the vision of how you met an ex-man, but did not recognize each other. The dream book foretells serious changes in the fate of the dreamer and her former lover, or predicts their rendezvous.
Treason is prophesied by a dream about receiving a gift from an ex. But hearing the voice of a once beloved man on the phone in night vision is not bad at all. The dream book suggests that he still loves, and I really want to meet and discuss something.
Seeing your first love in a dream is a dream of a pure, romantic, unburdensome relationship like you had in your youth.
A nightmare about killing your ex-lover, oddly enough, predicts good luck. If you are thinking about something, making global plans, make up your mind or start implementing them immediately. You'll be lucky! 
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- A dream is a kind of signal that a person receives. As a rule, our dreams feature unfamiliar, familiar and unfamiliar people or their images.
- Unmarried girls can very often dream of young guys, and among them are former boyfriends.
- Therefore, most representatives of the fair sex are often interested in the question of why the ex-boyfriend dreams?
- We can say with complete confidence that if a girl sees a young man in a dream, then she undoubtedly has certain feelings for him.
- This is a signal that even the slightest bit means something for a girl. As for ex-boyfriends, the situation here is somewhat different.
Every person constantly dreams throughout his life. Everyone sees them differently. Whatever the dream, it leaves an indelible impression in the memory. Sometimes these night stories frighten, delight, alarm or bewilder.
Often a person is surprised to note that dreams come true completely or partially. In some cases, they can warn about future events, joys and sorrows. And if you can interpret them correctly, then you can avoid unwanted events in life or reduce their negative impact to a minimum.
What does it mean to see your ex-boyfriend in a dream?
In reality, a chance meeting with a former lover is an ordinary thing that we cannot influence. But why does the image of a former boyfriend pop up in a dream, especially when a new stormy romantic relationship takes place in a girl’s life?
Scientists say it's all about the psychological aspect. Sometimes a certain life situation may resemble events from the past, or a girl is still having a hard time breaking up with her boyfriend. Most girls are sure that an ex-boyfriend appearing in a dream is a sure sign that he continues to think about her. However, this theory has no confirmation.
- Often, dreams project a person’s secret thoughts and desires, demonstrating the development of events that could take place in reality under a certain set of circumstances.
- Psychologists advise all girls who never tire of exhausting themselves with the question of why their ex-boyfriend dreams, not to take dreams too literally.
- After all, it is possible to correctly and correctly decipher a dream only when all the details and nuances are compiled into a single picture.
- Therefore, the one in the dream is nothing more than memories of him. Even if a girl has not seen him for a long time, something in her environment may remind her of him, or one of her friends may have mentioned him the day before.
When a relationship with a guy ended a long time ago, and he still continues to haunt the girl in her dreams, this indicates that she, especially morally, is not ready to put an end to this story and end the affair. In this case, it is best for the girl to free her thoughts from this difficult burden, which does not allow her to fully enjoy her current life without a partner.
Perhaps, at the end of the couple’s relationship, a certain understatement remained, or even worse, resentment. For this reason, the subconscious tries to let go of unpleasant emotions, but the mind does not allow it to do this.
- In addition, the appearance of a former lover in dreams can prove the fact that the girl, on a subconscious level, constantly compares her current relationship with past relationships that ended, looking for the shortcomings of her current partner.
- In most cases, practice shows that such a development of events does not actually lead to the desired outcome and does not end well for both partners.
- Perhaps a girl should stop constantly comparing her current partner with her ex, but, on the contrary, look for more positive aspects of him that she likes than negative ones.
So why does a young girl dream about her ex-boyfriend? In order to get a comprehensive answer, you should
immediately after waking up, write down the basic moments of your dream as accurately as possible. An important point will be to analyze your own psychological state after sleep.
Often in her dreams, a girl can see her ex-boyfriend with a new chosen one, a female person familiar or unfamiliar to her. It is logical that she will immediately have a question about why her ex-boyfriend dreams about another girl. These dreams can also be easily and simply explained.
Ex-boyfriend and another girl
These kinds of dreams can say a lot about the character of the girl herself and the depth of her experiences. The other one next to the ex-boyfriend is a rival who makes the girl not only jealous, but also feel some self-doubt. These dreams indicate that at the subconscious level the girl continues to consider the young man, despite the breakup, to be her property.
Kissing an ex-boyfriend in a dream
Often after a breakup, no matter how painful it may be for both partners, a girl sees herself in a dream next to her ex-boyfriend. At the same time, the dream may be accompanied by a passionate kiss.
After waking up, the girl, as a rule, becomes perplexed and tries to give herself an answer to the question and figure out why she dreams of her ex-boyfriend kissing me. It is worth saying right away that such dreams are caused only by the work of the subconscious. In addition, such a turn of events is provoked by a hidden or obvious longing for a certain person and relationship with him. In this case, we are talking about a former chosen one.
A frank conversation with an ex in a dream and a desire to renew the relationship
After a breakup, a young girl can often have a dream that her ex-boyfriend wants to resume the relationship. Sometimes dreams can be so colorful and realistic that a girl can spend a long time trying to interpret them and get an answer to the question of what the ex-boyfriend is dreaming about who wants to come back.
Thus, if a girl in a dream clearly saw a guy with whom she once had a serious relationship, this most likely does not mean a meeting with her ex, but only her own emotional experiences. During a breakup, a girl may feel
- pain,
- guilt,
- offense.
Undoubtedly, being a couple, the girl completely trusted her chosen one and relied entirely on him in everything. After the breakup, she continues to count on his help and support in difficult situations, as well as help in solving difficult life issues. This dream most likely once again proves the fact that the girl has not learned to live in a new way and make decisions on her own without the participation of her partner.
- Her partner’s opinion is still vitally important to her, albeit on a subconscious level, as is his presence in difficult moments. The girl wants him, and not anyone else, to listen to her and give her practical advice.
- Despite the fact that the couple’s relationship has ended, the girl does not completely let go of her partner, since she needs his reliable shoulder, help and protection in life.
- Psychologists say that as soon as a girl lets go of the past and starts a new relationship, such dreams will not bother her.
In order to ultimately analyze what your ex-boyfriend dreams about and come to the right conclusion, you should engage in introspection. First of all, the girl must honestly answer herself whether she has let go of her ex-lover and past relationships. If the answer is yes, then dreams starring your ex are vivid moments of memories from the past.
If the ex-boyfriend still appears in her thoughts and does not allow her to forget the past, then dreams are the work of the subconscious, which sends signals that the girl still hopes for reconciliation and renewal of the relationship. In this case, we can say with confidence that the partner, although ex-partner, still means a lot to her and remains an important person for her.
With the firm goal of eradicating such dreams, psychologists recommend letting go of thoughts, and with them the past, and adjusting to a new life. A new relationship with a new person can be a fresh breath of air, which will help you put an end to the past and start life from scratch. 
Every person dreams constantly. Some of them can be remembered, while others are erased from memory before morning comes. Many girls and women face a problem when they dream about their ex-lover. Q What are they talking about? Do they have any esoteric meaning or are vivid dreams just the result of the activity of the subconscious?
Are prophetic dreams reality?
Today there are many dream books, each of which offers different explanations for the things seen in a dream. Of course, there are many esoteric teachings, legends, stories, religions that recognize the presence of prophetic dreams. Many women who see a former lover in a dream believe that this is evidence of passionate feelings on the part of the man.
Is it true? There is hardly a clear answer to this question. After all, there are many facts that deny the existence of prophetic dreams. At the same time, thousands of people say that on the eve of certain important events they see warning dreams. This is purely a matter of faith.
As for scientific research, their results indicate that sleep is a manifestation of the intense work of the subconscious.
Dreaming about an ex-lover - why? Freudian meaning
Yes, S. Freud agreed that dreams are manifestations of the unconscious. The founder of psychoanalysis paid much attention to the analysis of dreams. After all, the subconscious communicates with consciousness through images and pictures. Naturally, the scientist more than once had to deal with patients who dreamed of their former lover. Why such a dream?
If you and your loved one have only recently broken up, then it is quite normal to see your ex-boyfriend (or husband) in a dream, because you had to disrupt your usual way of life, give up communication and relationships that in one way or another influenced the development of your personality.
But what if you're already in a new relationship that you're quite happy with? If you have a family, but you haven’t seen your ex-boyfriend for several years? In such cases, Freud advised paying attention to the little things. Perhaps in a past relationship you had something that you lack with your partner now? For example, back then there was more romance, more passion, more sensuality, and now you just don’t have such vivid emotions?
Sometimes the subconscious tries to warn a woman that in a new relationship she is making the same mistakes as in the past.
Why do you dream about your ex-lover? Tsvetkov's Dream Interpretation
This dream book is considered the largest today, and many women use it to explain their dreams. So why do you dream about ex-lovers? If an unmarried girl saw it in a dream, then this may foreshadow some frivolous act that will be committed by her in the near future. Be careful, as seemingly harmless frivolity can lead to serious, even disastrous consequences.
A completely different interpretation of a dream seen by a divorced or married woman. In this case, the dream predicts the appearance of unpleasant troubles. Problems may be associated with forced long trips, illness of the husband (if he has one). Dreams may signal worsening financial problems.
Esoteric dream book
This dream book also gives a very detailed explanation of such dreams. Seeing a former lover in a dream, while experiencing warm feelings for him, is a manifestation of the consequences of some events that happened a long time ago.
If in a dream you kiss your ex, then be prepared for events that will surprise you. If you make love, then this may indicate an upcoming aggravation of some old conflict. Sometimes women dream that a man still loves them - this is a sign of pleasant surprises. If in a dream your former loved one marries someone, then in the near future you will be able to forgive someone. If you are the bride, then get ready for trouble.
A strong quarrel with an ex-boyfriend predicts some pleasant changes in your personal life. If you fight in a dream, then be prepared for the appearance of an authoritarian companion in your life. Parting may foreshadow a pleasant acquaintance or meeting.
What do modern dream books say?
There are many modern dream books that many women turn to if they dream of a former lover. Why such a dream?
What do modern psychologists think?
It should be noted right away that dream analysis is not an exact science. Modern psychologists consider pictures seen in a dream to be signals from the subconscious, which are trying to give answers to questions that interest you and suggest what exactly needs to be changed in your life.
If you are constantly tormented by dreams about your ex-lover, try to distract yourself. Find yourself a new hobby or interesting activity that will give you such vivid emotions that it will eclipse the image of your ex-boyfriend for a long time. If intrusive dreams do not disappear, then you should consult a psychologist. Still, the clues of the subconscious should not be ignored, and deciphering them on your own is not always easy.
For example, if you and your boyfriend or husband separated after a serious disagreement, then there is an unresolved conflict. Constant dreams about it may indicate that the subconscious is trying to solve it, playing out various possible scenarios for the development of events. And, of course, we should not forget that sometimes a dream is just a dream and nothing more.
Hello girls! Have you started having dreams about your ex-boyfriend and are you wondering what they mean? Seeing a former boyfriend means that changes are expected in real life. But positive or negative is unknown.
I dreamed about my ex in a dream: interpretation
First of all, you need to remember all the smallest details that happened in the dream. Seeing an ex-man means that the past does not let you go. In real life, you still remember the experience. Until you completely let go of past relationships, they will continue to interfere with self-realization and the development of your personality, including new unions.
Esotericists believe that those who have unresolved questions dream about their exes.
Why do you dream about your ex-boyfriend?
To correctly solve a dream, you need to remove all your grievances from your head and approach the interpretation with a clear mind. Remember what emotions you experience when you see a previously loved one in a dream. Dealing with this feeling is very important. The interpretation will depend on it.
One option could be that the girl still has very strong and sincere feelings for her ex-boyfriend, which manifest themselves in a dream. In real life she resists this, but her subconscious says otherwise. Perhaps she wants to return to her old relationship.
It’s just that the subconscious will not let you get rid of thoughts and not notice true feelings. Resistance will only agitate your internal state more strongly. A girl will more often notice things that remind her of her ex-partner. The subconscious seems to say that something needs to be done. Perhaps you should try to restore your relationship with your ex, since life itself is directing you towards him.
If you see a man in your dreams with another girl, this is already a bad sign. It implies that your communication will completely come to naught. Psychologists say that if you have a dream about your ex-boyfriend, it means that you are thinking about him, and thoughts are projected through your subconscious. Regardless of whether you think bad or good about the guy.
Perhaps a loved one previously committed a strong betrayal that really hurt you. That period left an imprint on my heart. You need to try to let go of the situation. Under no circumstances should you look for similarities with your ex in new men. This will only make the situation worse. Start to realize yourself, change your surroundings, visit new places and events that you previously avoided.
Are you already in a relationship with a new boyfriend, but still keep dreaming about your ex-boyfriend? This dream indicates that there are problems with your current partner. You quarrel, conflict situations often flare up, and you cannot come to a common opinion. Do not ignore this warning from your subconscious. In real life, talk with your loved one, sort out all the omissions and unsaid things that you have. Thus, you will be able to save the union.
Interpretation of sleep: how does your ex dream?
Details in a dream have far from a secondary meaning. They help to most accurately decipher what you see. Remember in detail the situation you were in and what happened:
- If you dream of a former boyfriend while intoxicated, it is believed that he is experiencing severe emotional shock. Since you are dreaming about him, most likely, you are the very reason for his crisis. If you still have friendly relations, get in touch with him and provide support to your once loved one.
- I dreamed that you married your ex-boyfriend. This is an unfavorable dream, foreshadowing troubles and anxiety. If you are in a relationship, try to avoid any conflicts at the moment.
- A surprise or gift from an ex is interpreted in different ways. On the one hand, this does not bode well. On the other hand, your current partner has thoughts of cheating on you.
- You had sex with your ex-man. This dream means that you have not realized all your desires and the subconscious is trying to bring you closer to the person, and the existing relationship does not allow this to happen. The vision also warns of an impending quarrel with your current loved one.
- When in a dream you see that your ex-boyfriend is leaving, you feel him as a complete stranger, such a dream speaks of changes in your destinies. There is a chance that you will meet him more than once in real life.
- If you talk to him in a dream, it means your ex is still thinking about you. Warm feelings for your person have not left him. Perhaps in real life he often thinks about why you could not maintain the relationship, and wants to return it if possible.
- If a person is not alive, and you dream about him. Such a dream can seriously frighten a girl. He warns that you need to be wary of reality. If the deceased guy helps you cope with problems in a dream, this is a favorable dream. This means that in reality you will be able to overcome all misfortunes and defeat your enemies.
- See your first love. Symbolizes that you lack romance and attention to yourself. It is necessary to improve your current relationship so that it is filled with passion and care.
- Conflict with ex-love. Speaks of the need for a firm decision, determining who you really want to create a relationship with.
- If in a dream you kill your ex-boyfriend with your own hands, big changes await you in real life. Whatever you undertake, it will be successful. Don't hesitate and dare to experiment. Success awaits you.
Value by day of week
- The dream occurred on Wednesday. Such a dream will be prophetic. Remember everything, even the smallest details that happened. If the dream turns out not to be prophetic, then he was simply trying to say something, to warn you so that you would not make mistakes in the near future.
- The dream happened on Friday. During this period, it is worth treating sleep as a guide to life. If you dreamed about your ex, it means you need to pull yourself together, be patient and avoid conflict situations.
- The man had a dream on Saturday. What you see this night will represent the mistakes of your shared past.
- I had a dream about my ex-boyfriend on Sunday. Fate is favorable to you. All your new endeavors will lead to success and a surge of vital energy.
Often see your ex-boyfriend in a dream
This should be regarded as a warning. The dream is trying to communicate that in real life you are not going your own way, making mistakes. Stop, think about what has happened to you lately. Perhaps you took some action after which you regretted your actions.
Don't make hasty decisions. Think everything through in advance. After all, your reputation can be ruined in the blink of an eye, but it will take many years to restore.
Dream Interpretation. What do famous interpreters say?
Interpretation from the world psychologist, founder of psychoanalysis and expert in all the intricacies of human nature Sigmund Freud
- If a woman meets her ex-husband or loved one in a dream, this should be regarded as a warning about impending quarrels and conflicts in a real relationship.
- When a woman dreams of her ex-partners, it means that on an emotional and psychological level she has not let them go from her life, at times she remembers and worries.
- If a woman has not yet married, and she had a dream about her ex-man, the dream foreshadows the birth of a new relationship.
- If you dream about your ex often and obsessively, Freud recommends asking what is happening to this person. Perhaps he has problems and needs help, which you can provide.
Bulgarian clairvoyant Vanga, specialist in predictions regarding the expected future
According to Vanga's dream book:
- Seeing in a dream something that is long gone and has become old means that you are carrying a burden or have hit a lying stone that is blocking your path to a happy life.
- Seeing yourself happy with your ex-husband in a dream means that new pleasant acquaintances or relationships await you in real life. Perhaps it will come to marriage.
- Dreaming of intimate intimacy with a former partner means a break in the relationship in reality. It is believed that relatives will put spokes in the wheels.
Miller, who studied the relationship between psychology and dreams
A famous psychologist believed:
- you dream about your former significant other because you have unresolved problems in the past that need to be analyzed and, if possible, resolved;
- when you dream of a former loved one or husband in a sick state or drunk, this indicates that he is severely depressed and needs help;
- whatever emotions you felt in a dream while being next to your ex, you will experience the same in real life.
This is how this dream is deciphered and there are interpretations from the most famous professionals in the field of dreams. Tell me, did your dream meanings coincide? How do you feel about such visions? Share your opinion in the comments.
Usually a lover from the past appears in a woman’s night dreams if she wants to get back into a relationship with him. In this case, no special interpretation of the dream will be required. And why do you dream about your ex-boyfriend?
If in reality a girl hasn’t thought about her ex-man for a long time and certainly doesn’t want to get back into a relationship with him, you should turn to dream books for help in interpretation. Thus, in Tsvetkov’s work it is noted that the plot under discussion warns the sleeping woman about a possible frivolous act in the very near future, which will lead her to sad consequences.
Freud notes that in this way, in a dream, a comparison of a former lover with a current partner occurs. As a rule, this does not happen in favor of the latter. Perhaps the new man makes too many mistakes that hurt and offend the girl.
Sigmund Freud also notes that the ex-boyfriend from a dream symbolizes a woman’s fears of possible betrayal in reality. She is subconsciously very afraid of betrayal and constantly thinks about it. To regain your peace of mind, you need to let go of your fears.
In Miller’s dream book, the ex-boyfriend turns out to be a harbinger of illness. This concerns a plot in which a young man looks very bad. Most likely, one of your dear people will get sick.
Kiss with an ex-boyfriend
A passionate kiss with an ex-boyfriend promises the fair sex a quick shock. A woman will receive some shocking news that will radically change her whole life.
If in a dream there was not only a kiss, but also sexual contact, then such a plot promises the fair sex an exacerbation of old conflicts. These are not necessarily contradictions with a lover from the past. Any close acquaintances of the dreamer can become their participants.
Seeing your ex's death in a dream
It happens that in her dream a woman attends the funeral of her ex-man. This is a good sign for her. There is a high probability that the girl will soon get married or become a mother. This version of interpretation is especially relevant if the girl did not feel sadness or sadness in her night dreams.
If the girl herself watches the death of her former lover, but does not try to help him in any way, she will probably finally be able to part with the past forever, which pulls her back and does not allow her to fully develop. This will be facilitated by some unexpected events that will change the girl’s thoughts and her outlook on life.
Why do you dream about your ex-boyfriend whom you still love?
There is a belief that a person who appears uninvited in a dream continues to think about the woman. There is a possibility that he, too, still cannot forget his beloved and has feelings for her.
If you dream of a repeat of a couple's separation, you should expect an unexpected meeting or even an invitation to a date. And the wedding of former lovers in a dream foreshadows serious problems in reality. They can relate to personal life and any other areas of it.
Did you dream about an ex-man as the husband of another girl? This plot can have several meanings at once, depending on the mood of the sleeping woman. If such a picture gives her emotional pain and grief, most likely, the fair sex is simply very jealous of the man and worries that he will soon find himself a new girl. If the dreamer rejoices for the happiness of her ex-partner, the plot under discussion promises her forgiveness of an old offense.
Reconciliation with an ex in a dream
Most dream books suggest that a dream about the reconciliation of former lovers is an important sign. He says that the man still has strong feelings for the girl. He greatly regrets the breakup and wants to get back into the relationship. If a woman experiences similar emotions, you can try to start a romantic relationship again.
It happens that in a dream, reconciliation happens with a man whom the girl has already forgotten for a long time and does not want to renew her relationship with him at all. In this case, the plot of the dream promises her a new joyful turn of fate. If she had long wanted to deal with the burden of problems and start living anew, the perfect time had come for this.
Sometimes a woman in a dream sees herself again in a relationship with her former lover and at the same time quarreling strongly with him. A fight with a man from the past promises her serious conflicts or even separation from her current gentleman. If during the process a girl feels the desire to kill a young man, it means that she is completely ready for a new relationship and for positive changes in real life.
A very happy relationship after reconciliation with a former partner in a dream foreshadows surprise in reality. It may also turn out to be unpleasant. For example, concerning the true character traits of a new lover, which will suddenly be revealed in an unusual situation. The revealed meaning and details of the vision must be kept from others in the strictest confidence until the prediction comes true.
