My sons are already adults, everyone has their own family. But I still remember the most my first feelings when I was born first one son, then the second one: God, my boys, they also go to the army ...
It was the topic in which my husband and I were not unanimous. He studied at the Institute with military Department, I received my army experience for 2 months of fees. And he argued that the boys in the army should be taken. I, purely in female, and still having different creepy stories, was categorically opposed and said that I would do everything possible so that my children in the army would serve ...
Time went, the sons were adjusted. The younger revealed asthma - we lived at the time in the city with a major chemical production, and he was very clouded when an accident occurred there, after a couple of years after which such consequences were manifested with respiratory authorities. However, this is a completely different story. The senior graduated from the university, and decided to go to the army. At that time, the husband worked in Moscow, and we lived in Kirov. I was very worried - but I tried to prepare my son morally in the measure of my forces, and he himself could have been physically prepared.
Then there was a mystical story. A week before the call, I was in Moscow, and passing by Danilov Monastery, I went into one of his temples. And there is a rack with information that applications for prayers are accepted here in Skit Sergius Radonezhsky. And this is just the Heavenly Patron of My Sergi ... In general, I ordered prayer for a year - just about the service life of the earrings. And then another one, already in another temple. And returned home. Call time came. We broke up with son, of course, I was very worried - where, how he was there ... a husband calls in a week, and reports: Son said - it is located in a part located 15 minutes from the house where the husband lived, and that they Each morning past his house Cross run ...
Then we were on his oath with the whole family - the youngest one by the time entered the university and studied in Moscow. Part in the center of Moscow, with the General Staff. Muck just incredibly - the husband came to Seaghe every week with a bag of delicacies, and he was pleased with this as a child. Well, of course communicating with the Father too. Sometimes I came. True, they were extremely rare in the city. Since the specialty from Syanuli - IT and English, he spent this year quite well. There was one of the main IT Schnikov, answered the computer economy. And from time to time he trained the English teenage daughter of his commander, and spengtered her a couple of times in Gorky Park. And he gave concerts to the commander of the part was funny - Serge Master of Bamboo Ethnic Flute, makes them to order, teaches the game, and he plays well. The thing is exotic. Here the commander invited him from time to time to listen to the meditative music of the flute ...
Well, this is so pleasant moments that did not exclude huge physical. The loads and the whole thing is that it is necessary to pass a soldier. What are the tests of themselves who did not suit the testers ... then a long run in the costumes of the chemical protection with a complete ammunition, then the rise among the night and the task to make 1000 (thousand) jumps out of the squat, then fell-spoiled to complete exhaustion, and then as much as much Without a break ... Thank God, to a thousand commander to wait is boring, and after the 600th he let them go with the world ... but it is impossible to present it. There were a lot of overcoming that the son had learned to make super-efforts. And it was the very experience of he now, after 6 years after the service, still very much appreciated.
It was certainly not so smooth - already in the work of half of the service, he managed to catch the pneumonia, and somehow it was all stupidly stupidly (and this is in part of the General Staff, in the center of Moscow), that in part it was not at all treated - exactly As long as he lost consciousness and did not fall in the barracks. I knew about his illness, convened. And reported to Peppermaster to pay attention. And nifigig ... You know - at this time I had such feelings that I understood how suicide bombers appear ... Such a dark and torment in the soul rose that if I were there, I don't know what nonsense Could do ... the church helped me, prayer before the favorite icons (and I cannot attribute myself to the real believing, I am infrequently in the temple, all the rules are not a dish). But the soul was cleared - and there they sent the son to the hospital, and normally trembled ... Oh, but the experiences of course enough.
But thank God, this year ended, the son returned home. And the usual life went. In which he recalls his army experience in good, with gratitude. And very appreciates what he understood: it is possible to overcome a lot that at first glance seems insurmountable.
And I'm glad for him. But my junior received liberation from this case because of asthma. And I am also glad too (not asthma, of course - we did everything possible to cure her, and now he has a long period of remission. God will give - he will consolidate). He is my other, and he has his own way. Let each of them have their own experience.
And attitude to K. military Meetiness I have a double. I do not think that absolutely all boys should get this experience. And only those who, in their personal and physical qualities, are able to go through this school without harm to health, and who is internally ready for the service. This readiness can be taught - at least when the elder accepted such a decision, we talked a lot to this topic that each test during this period should be taken as invaluable experienceAnd strive to leave him with honor and extract positive. And of course, to know that it is temporary ... For those who are not ready to devote life to anyone. The same who serves professionally - I respect. This is a difficult path. Moreover, this is a system, and not very perfect.
Well, in conclusion. All parents of boys who will decide (in their will or by the will of circumstances) serve in the army - let this time be held as calmly as possible for the soldier and for parents. Let all negative cases cost your sons, and the greatest test will be physical activity. Which they certainly learn to perform with benefit for their moral and volitional qualities. Well, to those who decide not to serve - so that this decision was meaningful, it was not too expensive, and did not bring problems in the life of the Son. In order for the topic to "disappear" did not become leading in other sides of life.
Returns the younger son from service in the Ministry of Emergency Situations. Father with an elder brother ask: - Well, tell me, how is there in the Ministry of Emergency Situations? And then we are just a long time ago soviet army served, and in the Ministry of Emergency Situations, they say, how are they as they serve. The son replies: - Due to the complete ******* change. There is nothing to tell. - Tell me. - Yes, what to tell, you want, I will show you better. In the evening we are going at the table, we will hold a meeting, the routine of the day for tomorrow. Going in the evening at the table. Son: - So, it means tomorrow: at 6 am the rise, in 8 breakfast, 10 leave for firewood. Father is appointed responsible for transport - harness a horse, and the older brother is appointed responsible for the inventory - 3 axes, 3 saws, 3 ropes. Father with an older brother is indignant: - on *** get up so early? Come on in 9 stand up, at 9:30 we have breakfast, we will leave 10. Son: Not ****, in 6 rise, 8 breakfast, 10 leave for firewood. Well, I got up at 6, in 5 minutes the horse was harnessed, collected the inventory, up to 8 from the corner in the corner, were drowned, they were breakfast, to 10 walked from the angle to the angle, finally 10 hours. Looking inventory. - 3 axes, 3 saws, everything is in place. We travel to the inventory, leave. Seli, drove. 100 meters pass, son: - Stop! Check inventory. Father with brother: - What is the check? Just checked. Son: - Not ****. With the last check, something ***** AT. Stopped. Posted 3 axes, 3 saws, everything is in place. We ship inventory, go further. And so every 100 meters. Drive up to the river. Son: - So, here we are fucking Vyhod. Father: - Why? 300 meters away, drove through the bridge. Son: - Not ****! So you lost a lot of time. I said Vyod, then Vyod. Ebanuli Vyod. Drowned the cart. Barely pulled out. Closer to the evening they got to the forest. Nature, wrought. Son: - Georgia inventory, loading firewood. Uploaded, drove. 100 meters: - Stop! Check inventory. Father with brother: - on ***, he is under firewood. Son: - Not ****, unload. Unloaded, checked: 3 axes, 3 saws, everything is in place. We ship inventory, ship firewood. And so every 100 meters. Drive up to the river. Son: - So, here we are fucking Vyhod. Father and brother: - ***? Let's go through the bridge. Son: - Not ****! VJD. Well. The cart was drowned, barely pulled out. Firewood for the flow went. Somehow got home. Son: - So, not to disperse anyone, after an hour, meeting: summing up for today and clarifying tasks for tomorrow. Gathered. Son: - So, what did we do today and what is the result? Father: - All day ******* I have, no result. Son: - right! So tomorrow: in 6 rise, 8 breakfast, 10 leave for firewood.
There is a version of the shorter:
At 6 am, the whole village woke up from a terrible sound published by hanging rail on the main square in front of the village council. After 5 minutes, the whole area was filled with the people, all came running. Dembel stopped checked with a hammer on the rail, went to the crowd and commanded:
- Become! Once ... retain! Once! Sniff !!! So so ... We are now with your father and brother for firewood, the rest on the schedule. Own!
Welcome back home!
Let the spirit of your combat
And the citizen inspires
Snorzka, experience will be out!
And everything is cool in life,
So that you were absolutely happy!
Reached heights in any career
Dream so that you were your faith!
Family has been released,
Congratulations we
Welcome back home,
Our soldier is expensive!
Seem to smile
Now life will begin
There will be meetings and love,
Sea of \u200b\u200bhappiness, warm words!
You are a man now real,
Cleaning time!
You returned! Successes shiny!
To achieve a lot you can!
Let real will be victory,
And in love, and in work, in business!
Let them bypass adversity and troubles,
Let him live like in dreams!
From the army has already returned
Handsman began and matured
Now you are a real warrior,
Dosto honor and praise.
I have a hurry to congratulate the demob
Good and happiness wish
Let a joyful "citizen" meet,
Go ahead and keep it up!
Congratulations on the return of the army cool with humor
Dear you are our soldiers!
Home came you happy!
Zamteral in service you,
Your enemies are now cranes!
You stood, but not trouble,
With you your experience forever!
Use it for all one hundred
And surprise us, like corrupt!
Without your favorite persons,
Raised backup,
Finally served
And returned to the citizen
Finally hung borscht
And hugged her baby!
Laughter with luck together
Let them rush to you scrapping!
You came! Hooray! We were waiting!
Letters to the army wrote!
What did I do, we all know!
Happy Congratulations!
We take a walk, friend, to glory!
Deserved the Coutezh right!
Light and have fun
So that your dreams come true!
"Farewell" said the barracks cute,
I said goodbye to the feet forever,
Home you arrived from the army
You are cool, boy, it is yes!
I congratulate the return,
I wish to fight peacefully
Enemy let him be a lady
And the battle is only a bed.
Congratulation with the return of the son from the army for the mother
Your soldier returned home,
He gave his homeland his own !!
Good luck let him be circling
After all, in it great potential!
Let the mood is not lost
Let him seek to victory,
Your son, fighter, example, hero,
Let the sun shine brightly!
Your son returned to a citizen,
All in honor of him shout "Hurray!"
Now arrange a gullyan
And the most magnificent feast time
Now the son is loved at home,
On the heart will become warming,
You will be joy only familiar
And healing fun!
You waited for no one!
And your son finally returned!
Crying again? C'mon! What are you?
Now you can, it's time to smile!
Look at the same as he matured!
Even more they can be proud!
Congratulations that the day he came!
What do you want him to come true!
Today you meet my son,
Returned from the army of soldiers,
Waited for him with great love,
You are a lot long days contract.
Let your support be
Always beautiful, nice son
And gratitude now to God
That he returned to be unharmed.
Congratulations on the return of the army in prose
Ended another important stage in your life! Let Dembel be the starting point for new achievements, breakthroughs and excessive dreams!. Let the army friends remain in your life for many years, and the knowledge gained and the acquired experience will help you achieve everything you wish! Peace, Light, Love and Goodness!
You were a bold soldier, male, grown, and finally it was time to return home, where they were waiting for their relatives. With the end of the service and the huge joy of returning to the usual life! Let the citizen wait for you new achievements, pleasant meetings, long-awaited hugs, infinite fun and many memorable happy moments carrying bright and good, giving excellent mood and positive!
Congratulations on the onset of the long-awaited date - the dates of your return from the army! We know what was difficult, but you learned very much, and believe me, you will often remember and even bored in the service! Let life prepare you many chances that you definitely do not miss! Let it be possible to get acquainted with good and interesting people! And, of course, give true love!
Congratulations on the return of the army! Behind the difficult years of service, behind the shoulders - experience, in the piggy bank - power and courage. Let this stretch of life become the start of new victories. Summates with honor and mind to apply the surveyed skills and knowledge in peaceful, civil life, always remember the army friends and be grateful to fate for such an important test that has hardered in your character and brought up a real man.
Short SMS with the return of the army
You mature and fixed it -
Today you returned home!
Just achieve a citizen,
We wish you! Bank accounts!
The days of the army, fortunately, behind
And with this I congratulate sincerely!
Let the joy be sweet to go ahead,
More than a glorious joy, I wish!
Phenomenal luck, my friend!
Returned from the army - everyone is happy around!
Everything works let it quickly and easily!
Take up, you can, because, beautiful, high!
You came from the army,
Congratulations take.
Life army and service
Never forget!
According to the Ministry of Defense, in the Belarusian army is reduced. In 1994, a suicide was committed by about 40 people, in 2016 - four. After the incident in the furnaces, the investigative committee for additional examination of all materials of inspections and "refusal" materials in six years of the existence of a department for the facts of death or injury in the army. And today, the investigation hopes not one family of guys who, according to the documents, committed their life suicide.
History 1. "Often repeated the phrase:" People are not iron, money is not important ""
Mikhail Bevzyuk Calculated into the army in 2014. In March 2015, the Dead 22-year-old guy was brought to the village of Lesseck Kalinkovichsky District. On the eve of the translation from the text in the furnaces, Mikhail was found hanged in the toilet dryers. And the day before, he received a salary.
Mikhail Bevzyuk was 22 years old. He grew up in the village in the family, where five children raised one mother. Photo from the page of Yuri Bevzyuk in the social network Yuri Bevzyuk, Mikhail's brother, tells: about what happened, soldiers reported. They called and said what happened in state. The next day, Mikhail was brought to bury.
The guy was 22 years old, he graduated from the Zhilich State Agricultural College and received the profession of fruits and vegetable technologist. Mikhail grew up in the village in the family, where five children raised one mother.
"We didn't believe it first, did not understand what was happening," recalls Yuri. - I do not even know how to explain. The military brought and said that he was the best shooting and charging in the division, which was offered to remain under the contract.
The conditions in the army native Mikhail did not complain. The only thing, said that they are badly fed and demanding money for the opportunity to use the phone. This money tried to send him.
"Misha often repeated the phrase:" People are not iron, money is not important, "says Yuri. "But he never expressed suicidal thoughts and was a positive person."
Mikhail found over March 21, 2015 in the toilet dryers. UK in the Minsk region opened a criminal case. As told official representative UK in the Minsk region Tatyana Belonog., investigative action this fact held today.
Alexander Belotsky, Mikhail's sister husband, about a week after what happened in military part In the furnaces.
- We were held in the toilet where everything happened. There is a toilet and dryer in one room. Showed the pipe on which he was found. The pipe is located at a distance of 40 centimeters from the wall. The wall was smooth and painted paint. I drew attention to it, because when Misha was brought to bury, he had dissected eyebrow over the right eye. We were told that when they shot, it was drawn along the wall and, probably, scratched. But, as it turned out, the wall was smooth, there is no rough surface, "says Alexander.
He recalls that when the military brought Mikhail, their relatives wanted to attribute him to the house and inspect, but they were told that there was no time. But in the cemetery, they still noticed the bruise on the face.
- We went to the Investigative Committee even then, and we were given to see the case. There were four volumes. I shed, looked at the photos, I read the conclusion. It turns out that when he was removed, the doctor of the part did a heart massage and broke him two ribs. But it caused it suspicion.
Alexander notes that Mikhail's notes appeared in the case.
"He wrote something in the style of" Sergeants, what do you, are it easier? ", I found some kind of money, another note under the pillow from his comrade," Mom, I'm sorry "was written there. The feeling that the film was filmed - all by personnel, everything is somehow very nicely.
Alexander says that March 20, Mikhail received a salary evening, and on March 21, he was already found hung in the toilet.
The interlocutor recalls that in December 2014, Mikhail called from the army and asked to send him money, but someone said something on the back background. The guy laid sharply.
- He asked 50 rubles, if we translate new money. They say New YearWe are going to work out.
Alexander says that Mom Mikhail has somehow completed with what happened, and he himself did not know where to turn.
For his part, Yuri notes that it was noted that the history of the death of Alexander Korzhich was publicly helped.
- Misha never gave slab, did not give himself offense. During the funeral began to say that, maybe because of the girl. But what girl? He had a whole phone of the girls. So when we were told what happened, we did not believe, he could not. The shock was just.
History 2. "They said, wrote poems about death. But from where, explain to the army such poems? "
Pavel Oldenkova From the agro-town of the rods of the Mstislavsky district called in May 2016. Point destination - V / h 44540 under Zhodino. In November, parents called the commander of the part and said that. In February 2017, it is not far from the village of Male, a few kilometers from Zhodino. Parents said that Pasha hanged himself on birch at the shore of Plisy. Father and mother do not believe that it could be suicide. Already a year they write complaints and ask the investigators to understand everything.
Pavel Oldenkov. Photo provided by the search detachment "Angel" - What was our Pasha? - asks Valentina Arkadyevna, mom soldier. - The only child. When it was going to the 10th grade, we moved to the boats - closer to work. He hardly poured into the team, he was not particularly friendly with anyone. No, he had pleasants, but there - in the village, where we used to live. There are six-seven boy boys there, with a diaper together. Pasha went there for a weekend, together played together, in the summer bathed.
Son, describes mom, was modest. Came from school, communicated with his parents, sat in the computer. He studied middle. I understood that you need to get an education, graduated from college: specialty - lifter. I thought further to do, but did not pass through the competition.
- Agenda came in the fall of 2015, "Valentina Oldenkova continues. - It was terribly tired, but not taken away. Postponed until the next call. Hopefully maybe they will not be taken away. He did not want to go to the army, did not lie the soul. Doctors in the conclusion wrote: chronic gastritis and lags behind weight. I called the military committee, explained, in response: "Now everyone takes, we have no hot spots."
On May 26, 2016, Paul was taken, sent to the military unit under Zhodino. He called every weekend. Anyone, Mom says, told: that the trenches dig up that blood nose. Because of the blood, they advised not worry, everything will work out - adaptation is being adapted. In June, parents went to his son on the oath, remember - everyone liked, the commanders performed well.
- Then he was sent to the furnace to the furnace - from July 4 to September 8, it returns to those events of Mom. - it became harder. Somehow scored me, was generally upset. I gathered and went. But at the meeting, he did not complain, everything, repeated, normally. The closer to the end of the text, it was more difficult. Orders here, spoke, wild.
- What did he tell?
- I did not tell anything by phone. Want to quickly in Zhodino? In a conversation with me, he perceived it as an inevitability. It will disappear - and back.
- Have you ever traveled to him?
- In August, I visited him, aunt from Minsk - in September. In November, when he returned to Zhodino, Quarantine announced there. They wanted to come - it is impossible. We asked him: Pasha, get used to it. Customized that everything will work out. And money on the phone was put and on the card. Call us, communicate. Still, out of the border in the Minsk region, they will not be particularly driven.
- In conversations, you did not understand anything?
- No, only in the last days Sad was. Batka asked: "Pasha, you run on you?" He answered: not particularly. I do not know, maybe I did not want to upset us. And on Friday, November 11, called at 9 pm and such a doomed voice: "I'm fine, I'm fine." He said two identical phrases and put the phone. I was upset. I had a bad premonition. In the morning I sent him Banderol - Coffee, Tea, Candy ... I returned this parcel back in December.
On Saturday, Valentina Arkadyevna called a relative in Minsk, asked to go to the part, the aunt could not - did not work out due to work. Waited that Pasha will call, and he did not call everything. They began to recruit, hoped, those who collect the phones from soldiers will see that the mobile is constantly vibrating, and will give the owner.
- "Subscriber outside the zone of action" - everything that we heard in response - remembers mom. "And in the evening they called us out of the part, they said:" Pasha disappeared. " And there was twisted - commanders, injuries, psychologists of midnight gained. Where, asked, he could be? How do I know? He is already six months as in the army.
Pasha was looking for law enforcement officers and a search and rescue detachment "Angel".
"And then the commander called:" The events showed that he runs home, "Valentina Arkadyevna continues. - Where is running?! There are 280 kilometers. Two military arrived. We have lived a week. My husband has a patience over: "Two, three days a person can stay in non-existence. The rest is already unreal. What are you kidding? " And they: "We have work, we have an order."
And then, Mom says, everyone left, and everything calmed down.
In February, on the shores of File, which a few kilometers from Zhodino, fishermen found the body of Pasha. Parents reported: he hanged on the birch.
"We were told, he escaped," she tries to restrain the emotions of Mom. "All, they say, went to the bathhouse, and he complained about bad well-being, stayed in the barracks and ran away. But how did he convince? Why didn't he be dug in Sanchast?
Replies to these questions, parents do not know. At the end of March, after all the examinations, the Oldenkov brought a closed coffin with her son. And that's it.
- The Minsk investigator who was engaged in this case, closed him in May, Borisovsky - seemingly in August, - shares the experiences of Valentina Arkadyevna. - In Borisov, they refused a criminal case, suicide said. But they killed him, or he did it himself, did not establish the examination. We wrote to the prosecutor's office, the newspapers - meaningless. And only after the death of Sasha Corogich, everything gained publicity. SC said they would raise all the deaths about death in the army over the past few years. We have not come yet anything. Yesterday (November 16th. - approx. Tut.BY) I called the investigator, he said that he had handed over to the central office of the Investigative Committee.
- Why did you decide that it could be suicide?
"They said that in the training center Pasha conducted a diary: in a notebook, where calculations and records were conducted in the classroom, I made lyrical deviations," Mom answers. - We showed a photocopy of sheets from this notebook. Asked: "Pashin's handwriting?" I became bad, my husband looked: where the numbers and calculations - yes, the rest is no. And all, we have not seen this diary anymore. The investigator brought him and took him.
- What is this lyrical retreat?
- Poems about death. But from where, explain, in the army such poems? There, neither the books did not have books or the Internet. And the diaries before that he never led.
In the press service of the UK in the Minsk region, Tut.BY reported: about the death of Pavel Starenkova, the UK in the Minsk region continues to conduct a number of verification and procedural actions.
History 3. "I would look like you wake up in the morning and get with your hands in the chest"
- I do not know what happened in that part - says Lily Ankud From Molodechno.
- no one wanted by these things to do, - adds her husband Vladimir.
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